If Nice Guys Finish Last, Should You Become a "Nice Guy No More?"

Nice guys finish last. It’s a statement that is often said, but of course girls will always reject that and say “well actually, I  want  to find myself a really nice guy.” Of course, if  you’re  a nice guy,  you  know  that that’s not always the case.

Hi, my name’s Mike and I’m a nice guy. Lately I’ve been wondering why I had such problems ending up with girls in the past, and finally I’ve figured out exactly  what  I’ve been  doing  wrong.

Firstly, let me be clear, this doesn’t mean I’ve been single all my life – in fact, I’ve had some fantastic relationships and I  know  that one of the reasons they’ve been so fantastic is because I’ve treated them really well. But I also  know  that I’ve been in a lot of situations where I met a girl with whom their seemed to be a lot of potential, but somehow she then ended up with a total jerk instead.

So I’ve been wondering, would I better my odds by becoming a nice guy no more? Should I once and for all dump the nice guys finish last stigma, and just become a jerk?

Thankfully, the answer is no.

However, I have figured out exactly  what  I was  doing  wrong – and I bet it’s the same thing  you’ve  been  doing  wrong.

The problem is that us nice guys, we find a girl we like, and then we become a bit too nice. In short, we lose the maleness within us – suddenly we treat them like an angel or a princess instead of just another girl. Usually we stop flirting – even though we’ll still flirt like crazy with girls who aren’t quite so special – which in turn makes the girl start to think we don’t desire her … and bang, she’s off with someone who is showing her that he  does  desire her.

It doesn’t have to be like this –  you  can be a nice guy still, just make sure  you  keep flirting with her!

Source by Mike H.

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If Nice Guys Finish Last, Should You Become a "Nice Guy No More?"